I wrote DIVORCE PANIC for heterosexual men that have endured a failed long-term relationship with a woman and are having a difficult time picking up the pieces and starting over in life. This book will appeal especially to those men who have discovered that their wives committed infidelity. For these men, life as they know it was completely turned upside down. I understand the confusion, the despair, and the anger that you are going through. I went through it all, too. You need a little help, a little boost, to help you understand it all and to get you up and over the wall. That’s what this book is for.
Maybe there was no cheating. Maybe you just had a long-term partner that suddenly broke up with you, and you’re trying to understand what happened and how to move forward in life. For you, consider this book a lesson in both why your breakup may have happened and how you can avoid a ton of trouble with women in your future (yes, there will be more women). Learn from all of us who have been there and done that.
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, as they say.
Did you catch your wife cheating on you?
We are engineered to become addicted to our romantic partners.
Stop chasing.
That’s the million-dollar question we all want the answer to, right?
We’ve removed many of the “constraints” around marriage.
Modern-day marriage isn’t for everyone.
Monogamy, and marriage in particular, lessens a woman’s sexual desire and overall zest for life.
There are lots of opportunities to step outside of the marriage.
Baggage
Stress
“Nice” Guy Syndrome
Putting a woman on the pedestal.
She lost respect for you.
Other women lost interest in you, and you lost interest in other women.
She became your mother.
She’s just crazy.
Why is she acting this way?
Nobody cares.
You will detach.
Craig’s story was a little different from most. His divorce seemed to be truly amicable.
Dating again
Lover vs. Provider
The search for real love
Be more like a woman
Neediness and social anxiety
Abundance
The secret to picking up women
The delicate balancing game
Keep busy
Take care of your body
Take care of your mind
Hang out with men
Obstacles
I often say you shouldn’t let trauma define you as a person. This is coming from the guy who started a website, podcast, a wrote four books, has hundreds of articles, a YouTube channel, and an international men’s group, and offers one-on-one coaching… all because my wife left me after a twenty-year relationship.